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相濡以沫,不如相忘于江湖

总是断章取义,一段话或者一个大文章可能只是看到一句话或者一个词然后心有戚戚焉,咀嚼又咀嚼不能忘怀

泉涸,鱼相与处于陆,相句以湿,相濡以沫,不如相忘于江湖。

以前看过的好多书的故事里似乎说的大多是比如尽管相恋充满苦痛和切肤的挣扎但是都还要去轰轰烈烈恋一场——所谓“死了都要爱,不哭到微笑不痛快”。其实这不过是一种关系的建立,和许多种关系的建立是一样的,比如友情,但你过于看重的过于入心的时候,仍然会彼此伤害

有时候真的怀疑人身上那些还未退化完全的毛发其实是刺,刺猬身上的那类

关系的建立只是让人与人之间更加纠缠不清,犹如编织了一张复杂的大网来困住自己,这叫做作茧自缚

难怪人们把社会关系认定为一张大网,人一生下来就逃脱不掉——只能,解脱

庄子同学死了老婆却放声大唱,难道就是高兴着终于挣脱这个网可以相忘于江湖

【作者: xiaoweix】【访问统计:】【2006年04月16日 星期日 22:26】【 加入博采】【打印

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- 评论人:soncurn   2006-04-17 13:29:12   

.............
就算脱了人世的网又如何,终究还是挣不开自己这层网;
到头也会发现网都是自己结的;
人终归渺小,总是得承认的。

- 评论人:小河   2006-04-17 12:47:36   

刚看过一篇文章叫"Six famous words"(在我blog里面),Hamlet自问"To be or not to be"(活还是不活),有一位哲学家答:"To be is to be relations"(生存就是联系)。联系带来快乐,也带来痛苦,然而这两者都是我们生活的组成部分,除了这两者,生活还有什么呢?

- 评论人:ivy   2006-04-17 10:04:41   

你一定记得这句话:
Its best was bought only at the cost of great pain。

The Thorn Bird

Long Ago, there was a bird to sang just once in its life.

From the moment it left its nest, it searched for a thorn tree.

and it never rested until it found one.

Then it began to sing more sweetly

than any other creature on the face of the earth.

And singing, it impaled its breast on the longest, sharpest thorn.

But as it was dying, it rose above its own agony

to out-sing the lark and the nightingale.

The thornbird pays its life for that one song

and the whole world stills to listen

and God, in His heaven~smiles.

As its best was bought only at the cost of great pain.

Driven to the thorn, with no knowledge of the dying to come.

But when we press the thorn to our breast,

We know........

We understand.....

And still......we do it.

我们将坚信,并世代永传......

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